Ease anxiety about coming out?

maybe just get you and your friend alone and ask her if she can keep the biggest secret of your life. if she says you can tell her anything then i would say tell her. dont tell her you like her, just tell her you have feelings for other girls. Just make sure your ready for her to know, because your mind would be racing afterwards about what is going through her head. if your lucky then she will tell you about her thoughts, but they might just need some time to let it all settle. if they are a true friend they will stick to the promise of keeping it a secret. She wont come out to you right away if she is into other girls, but you will be the first they will contact if they are. Also, even though you live in a bible town, you would be surprised how many christians are accepting of it. It is the best feeling of your life.